5 Things That Stressed Me Out as a Content Creator (But Taught Me Big Lessons)

Writing for a living is deeply satisfying, sometimes magical, and occasionally a full-on stress-fest. I love what I do, but that doesn’t mean I haven’t taken a few face plants on the way to finding my stride.

Here are five stress-inducing, hair-pulling, lesson-packed experiences I’ve had as a content creator and what I’ve learned so you don’t fall into the same sad content creator hole.

1. Writing for Someone Who Wanted to Change Everything (But Gave Me Zero Direction) You know the type. "I’ll know it when I see it." Great. Except when they don’t know it, and all you’re doing is playing psychic ping-pong. The kicker? There was no brief, no target audience defined, and definitely no objective. Just a whole lot of back-and-forth and edits that led to, yes, more edits.

The Lesson: No brief? No write. Period. If you can’t define success, you’ll be stuck rewriting forever. I now require clarity, or I don’t hit the keyboard.

2. Trying to Meet an Unrealistic Deadline Because I Wanted to Be a Hero

This one stung. I said yes to a three-day turnaround on a big project because I wanted to impress. And impress I did until I was up at 3 a.m. questioning all my life choices and mainlining coffee like it was oxygen.

The Lesson: Boundaries are not optional. Rushing leads to mediocrity, not miracles. Deadlines should respect both quality and sanity.

3. Accepting a Fee That Screamed “I Don’t Value You”

Ah, the classic undercharge. I thought, “It’s a small gig so easy win.” Spoiler: It was neither small nor easy. And the client treated the work like it was from a vending machine. No respect. No appreciation. Lots of "can you justs."

The Lesson: Pricing is positioning. If someone balks at fair rates, they’re not your people.

4. Saying Yes to a Project That Had Red Flags Waving from the First Call

You know when your gut says run but your calendar says money? Yeah, I listened to the calendar. Cue the chaos: missed meetings, contradicting feedback, last-minute scope changes. I practically needed a support group.

The Lesson: Trust your instincts. One red flag is enough. Multiple? Sprint in the other direction.

5. Letting Scope Creep Turn Into a Full-On Scope Avalanche

I started with a simple deliverable. Before I knew it, I was roped into writing their entire email funnel, updating website copy, brainstorming hashtags, and naming their new pet hamster. Okay, not the last one. But close.

The Lesson: Define scope. Put it in writing. Stick to it. Over-delivering is one thing. Being taken advantage of is another.

Moral of the Story?

I’ve learned my lessons, sometimes the hard way, and I’ve crawled out of the sad copywriter hole more than once. But here’s the upside: boundaries are beautiful, clarity is queen, and pricing isn’t just about money, it’s about respect.

If you’re a fellow writer, take this as your permission slip to stand tall in your expertise.

If you're someone hiring a writer? Respect the craft, respect the process, and everybody wins.

Stay out of the sad copywriter hole. It’s dark down there, and there’s no Wi-Fi.

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